Surina Hart recalls feeling “deeply moved” in 2023 when her acquaintance was suffering from a broken heart after his wife passed away.
His loss had such a profound impact on the Brighton resident that she began thinking about other people who might be alone, especially on Christmas Day.
Instead of exchanging gifts with her husband Sean Sutherland that year, she suggested they open their home to host a free Christmas gathering for anyone who might otherwise be by themselves.
“He suggested holding it at the Legion, since I was a volunteer bartender there,” Hart told kawarthaNOW.
“We began spreading the word and prepared to host Christmas, SutherHart style. What started as a simple idea has since grown into an annual tradition, thanks to the incredible response, generosity, and warmth of those who attend,” she said.
The “SutherHart Community Christmas” was born.
This year, the couple is once again holding the social gathering for community members on Thursday (December 25) at the Brighton branch of the Royal Canadian Legion, located at 25 Park Street.
“This event exists because we truly believe no one should spend Christmas alone,” Hart said.
“At its heart, SutherHart Community Christmas is about connecting, coming together, and being there for one another. Christmas can be a difficult time for people separated from family, far from home, grieving losses, or simply without plans on the holiday. Over the past year, our own family and circle of friends have experienced significant loss, including the passing of my mother, which has further strengthened our commitment to ensuring that no one feels alone during the holidays.”
“We want to offer a place of connection, kindness, and joy — a community home and table where everyone is welcome and valued,” she added.
In its first year, there were 60 to 70 guests popping into the Legion throughout the day, Hart recalled, “many of whom arrived as strangers but left as friends.”
In 2024, attendance grew to more than 105 people.
This year’s free event, which runs from 10:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m., includes a morning and lunch buffet, a traditional home-cooked turkey, and a roast beef dinner buffet. Those who attend also receive gifts and can enjoy music, games, darts, and more.
Friendly faces, laughter, and community connection are at the heart of the event.
“What stands out most is watching people who might otherwise sit quietly at home come together, share a meal, laugh, and create memories — often staying for the entire day because they felt genuinely welcomed,” Hart said.
“Our children grew up learning the importance of community, kindness, and looking out for others. Now adults themselves, they continue to take part in the event, helping where needed and sharing in the spirit of connection and giving back.”
“Our hope for 2025 is to make it bigger, warmer, and even more inclusive, ensuring anyone in our Brighton community and surrounding communities who wants company, connection, or a festive meal on Christmas Day has a place to come,” Hart said.
“More than anything, we hope to continue creating a space where people can feel supported, connected, and reminded that they are not alone.”
For more information or to contribute or volunteer, visit www.sutherhartchristmas.ca.
